How to Prepare Kids for a Family Photoshoot (Without Tears)
One of the biggest concerns parents have before a shoot? “What if my kids don’t behave?” Totally normal—and also not something to stress about.
As someone who captures natural, documentary family photography, I know the best images come when kids are being themselves—not when they’re told to smile and sit still.
Here’s how to help them enjoy the experience (and get those magic, personality-filled shots).
Keep It Light, Keep It Fun
Let them know this isn’t school photo day. It’s about play, cuddles, games and doing what they love. Whether that’s running barefoot through a field or snuggling up on a blanket with you—let them be free.
Life moves fast. Let’s slow it down—just for a moment.
Give Them Choices
Want to wear the dinosaur t-shirt? Cool. Bring their favourite toy? Even better. Giving kids some control makes them feel involved, not pressured.
Feed Them First
Hungry = hangry. Make sure everyone’s had a snack (yes, adults too). Bringing extras with you? 10/10 would recommend.
Don’t Overhype It
Sometimes the more we try to make it “a big deal,” the more pressure builds. Keep your tone calm and excited, but casual.
Bonus: Prepare Yourself, Too
A calm parent equals calm kids. If you arrive flustered, they will feed off your energy. Check out this post on what to wear and get everything laid out the night before to help your morning feel easy-breezy.
Final Thoughts
Your child doesn’t need to perform—they just need to be. We’ll capture them just as they are: expressive, honest and beautifully real.
